Couples therapists in Tulsa, OK

25 verified listings 54 more licensed therapists from the NPI registry Updated October 2, 2026

25 couples therapists in Tulsa are listed with details from their own websites. 15 of them offer online sessions, and the approaches mentioned most often are Gottman Method, Prepare/Enrich and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Whether you’re working through a hard stretch or getting ready to marry, compare how they work and what they charge below.

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Gottman Method , 4 listings
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) , 2 listings
Imago , 1 listing
Discernment Counseling , 1 listing

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Prepare/Enrich Clear Approach: Prepare/Enrich
SYMBIS , 1 listing
Relational Life Therapy , 1 listing
Internal Family Systems (IFS) , 1 listing

What these approaches mean

Gottman Method: Developed by John and Julie Gottman. Usually starts with an assessment, then works on friendship, managing conflict and shared meaning.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Developed by Sue Johnson and grounded in attachment theory. Helps partners change the negative patterns that drive them apart.
Imago: Developed by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. Built on the idea that we carry an image from childhood into adult relationships.
Discernment Counseling: Developed by William Doherty for couples where one partner is leaning out. Up to five sessions, aimed at clarity about the next step.
Prepare/Enrich: An online relationship assessment followed by feedback sessions with a trained facilitator, for engaged or married couples.
SYMBIS: The Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts assessment by Les and Leslie Parrott, used with a certified facilitator, mostly before marriage.
Relational Life Therapy: Developed by Terry Real. Teaches relationship skills and works on patterns such as shame, grandiosity and distance.
Internal Family Systems (IFS): Developed by Richard Schwartz. Works with the different “parts” of each person; also adapted for couples.

Couples therapy approaches, explained

Insurance

Aetna , 1 listing
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Medicare , 1 listing

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Paula Lee, MA, LMFT

Type

Marriage & family therapist

Approach

Gottman Method and Prepare/Enrich

Insurance

Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield and Medicare

Also

Premarital counseling · Faith-integrated counseling available

Visit website of Paula Lee (opens in a new tab) Call Paula Lee at (918) 296-7746

Source: anchoredinhopetherapy.com, checked Oct 2, 2026 NPI 1770829194

54 more licensed therapists from the NPI registry aren’t covered by these filters. See the registry list.

Questions about couples therapy in Tulsa

How many couples therapists are listed in Tulsa?

This page lists 25 verified couples therapists in Tulsa. Another 54 licensed marriage and family therapists with Tulsa practice addresses appear in the federal NPI registry but haven’t been confirmed yet.

Can we do couples therapy online in Oklahoma?

Yes. 15 of the 25 verified therapists in Tulsa offer online sessions. A therapist can generally only see clients online while those clients are located in a state where the therapist is licensed, so both partners should be in Oklahoma (or another state where the therapist holds a license) during sessions.

Do couples therapists in Tulsa take insurance?

Some do. Of the 25 verified therapists, 8 mention Blue Cross Blue Shield, 7 mention UnitedHealthcare / Optum and 6 mention Aetna on their websites. Many plans cover couples therapy only in limited cases, so ask your insurer and the therapist before your first session.

Which couples therapy approaches do therapists in Tulsa use?

Of the 25 verified therapists, 7 mention Gottman Method, 5 mention Prepare/Enrich, 2 mention Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and 1 mentions Imago on their websites. Many therapists combine approaches, so ask how they work with couples and how they trained.

Are couples therapists in Tulsa accepting new clients?

8 of the 25 verified therapists say on their websites that they’re accepting new clients. Openings change quickly, so contact a therapist to confirm.

Can we talk to a therapist in Tulsa before booking?

1 of the 25 verified therapists mentions a free consultation. It’s a chance to ask how they work with couples, what they charge and when they have openings.

Choosing a therapist in Tulsa

How to choose a couples therapist: license types, how to check a license, and questions to ask before a first session.
Gottman Method vs. EFT: here, 7 verified listings mention the Gottman Method and 2 verified listings mention EFT.
Couples therapy approaches, explained: what Gottman Method, Prepare/Enrich and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) involve, and who developed them.
All cities in Oklahoma with verified listings.

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Paula Lee, MA, LMFT