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Couples therapists in Tulsa, OK

25 verified listings 54 more licensed therapists from the NPI registry Updated October 2, 2026

25 couples therapists in Tulsa are listed with details from their own websites. 15 of them offer online sessions, and the approaches mentioned most often are Gottman Method, Prepare/Enrich and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Whether you’re working through a hard stretch or getting ready to marry, compare how they work and what they charge below.

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  2. Brandee Butler, LMFT

    Practice details below come from miresource.com, which lists several clinicians.

    Type
    Marriage & family therapist
    Approach
    Imago
    Sessions
    Online (telehealth); online for clients in OK
    Insurance
    Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield, UnitedHealthcare / Optum and Kaiser Permanente
    Fee
    $100–$195 per session; sliding scale available; free consultation
    Also
    Premarital counseling · LGBTQ+ affirming · Faith-integrated counseling available
    New clients
    Listed as accepting new clients
    Visit website of Brandee Butler (opens in a new tab)

    Source: miresource.com, checked Sep 30, 2026 NPI 1104292457

  3. Payton Lamar

    Practice details below come from elliementalhealth.com, which lists several clinicians.

    Type
    Marriage & family therapist
    Approach
    Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Discernment Counseling, Relational Life Therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS)
    Sessions
    Online and in person
    Insurance
    Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cigna, Magellan, MultiPlan, TRICARE and UnitedHealthcare / Optum
    Fee
    Sliding scale available
    Also
    Premarital counseling · LGBTQ+ affirming
    Visit website of Payton Lamar (opens in a new tab) Call Payton Lamar at (918) 992-2335

    Source: elliementalhealth.com, checked Sep 30, 2026 NPI 1467331710

  5. Melody Miller, LMFT

    Type
    Marriage & family therapist
    Approach
    Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and SYMBIS
    Sessions
    Online and in person
    Session length
    50 minutes
    Insurance
    Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield and UnitedHealthcare / Optum
    Fee
    $100–$155 per session
    Also
    Premarital counseling · Faith-integrated counseling available
    Visit website of Melody Miller (opens in a new tab) Call Melody Miller at (918) 324-6120

    Source: wholehivecounseling.com, checked Oct 2, 2026 NPI 1336858737

54 more licensed therapists from the NPI registry aren’t covered by these filters. See the registry list.

Questions about couples therapy in Tulsa

How many couples therapists are listed in Tulsa?

This page lists 25 verified couples therapists in Tulsa. Another 54 licensed marriage and family therapists with Tulsa practice addresses appear in the federal NPI registry but haven’t been confirmed yet.

Can we do couples therapy online in Oklahoma?

Yes. 15 of the 25 verified therapists in Tulsa offer online sessions. A therapist can generally only see clients online while those clients are located in a state where the therapist is licensed, so both partners should be in Oklahoma (or another state where the therapist holds a license) during sessions.

Do couples therapists in Tulsa take insurance?

Some do. Of the 25 verified therapists, 8 mention Blue Cross Blue Shield, 7 mention UnitedHealthcare / Optum and 6 mention Aetna on their websites. Many plans cover couples therapy only in limited cases, so ask your insurer and the therapist before your first session.

Which couples therapy approaches do therapists in Tulsa use?

Of the 25 verified therapists, 7 mention Gottman Method, 5 mention Prepare/Enrich, 2 mention Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and 1 mentions Imago on their websites. Many therapists combine approaches, so ask how they work with couples and how they trained.

Are couples therapists in Tulsa accepting new clients?

8 of the 25 verified therapists say on their websites that they’re accepting new clients. Openings change quickly, so contact a therapist to confirm.

Can we talk to a therapist in Tulsa before booking?

1 of the 25 verified therapists mentions a free consultation. It’s a chance to ask how they work with couples, what they charge and when they have openings.

Choosing a therapist in Tulsa

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